Parents

Your Child's Development. Your Peace of Mind.

Expert-led sports performance and mental coaching built by a former NBA trainer with 36 years of experience.

You found us because your child needs something more. Maybe they are recovering from an ACL injury. Maybe they are struggling with confidence before games. Maybe you just want to make sure they are training the right way with someone you can trust.

Whatever brought you here, this page is for you. Exercise Innovation gives your athlete access to science-backed training programs and mental performance coaching. And it gives you something just as important: clarity on how to support them through every stage of their athletic journey.

A Complete Physical and Mental Development System

This is not a generic workout plan downloaded from the internet. Your child gets a structured, expert-designed system that develops both the body and the mind.

Physical Development

Progressive, phased training programs tailored to their sport and stage of development
Sport-specific conditioning for soccer, ACL recovery, and mental performance
Video-guided exercises with proper form and technique
Progress tracking so you and your athlete can see real improvement week over week

Mental Performance

Confidence building, anxiety management, and focus techniques
Visualization, goal setting, and self-talk frameworks
A complete 10-session mental performance curriculum
Personality-based coaching that adapts to how your child thinks and learns

Expert Coaching

Programs designed by Coach Dave Boyer—CSCS, ATC, with 16 years of NBA experience and 36 years in rehabilitation and sports performance
Optional 1-on-1 coaching sessions with Coach Dave for personalized guidance
A coach who understands athletes at every level, from youth to professional

You Are Not Just a Spectator. You Are the Foundation.

Being a sports parent is one of the most rewarding and demanding roles there is. You are the one who drives to practice at 6 AM. You are the one paying for camps, equipment, and club fees. You are the one sitting in the stands trying to stay calm when the game gets intense.

And when your child gets injured, loses confidence, or wants to quit, you are the first person they turn to, even when they do not say it out loud.

Research consistently shows that the psychological environment parents create at home and on the sidelines is one of the strongest predictors of an athlete's motivation, mental health, and long-term participation in sport.

That is why Exercise Innovation does not just train athletes. We support the people behind them.

How We Help You Help Them

We provide the frameworks, logs, and expert guidance needed to navigate the youth sports journey together.

Sessions with Coach Dave

Coach Dave Boyer does not just work with athletes. He works with parents too. In a parent session, Dave helps you understand your role in your child’s athletic journey.

Dave walks you through the mental stages your athlete is experiencing, helping you support them through recovery, confidence issues, or pre-game anxiety without adding pressure.

"Your job is to be the logistical person. You pay for it, you feed them, you get them to practice. But their mental development and competitive growth is their responsibility, and you as a parent have to separate from that process so they can grow and you can enjoy it."

The Psychology Every Sports Parent Should Understand

Understanding what goes on inside your athlete’s mind will change how you show up for them.

Your Words Build or Break Their Confidence

Self-efficacy, an athlete’s belief in their ability to succeed, is built through four sources: mastery experiences, watching others succeed, encouragement from parents and coaches, and how they interpret their own nervousness. Your words directly build or erode your child’s self-efficacy. Overcriticism, even when well-intentioned, chips away at their belief in themselves.

Your Response After a Loss Matters More Than Any Coaching Session

Children use parents as a secure base. When that base feels conditional on performance, athletes develop performance-contingent self-worth. They only feel valued when they succeed. This is strongly linked to perfectionism, anxiety, and depression in athletes. Unconditional love and acceptance must be clearly communicated, especially after a poor performance. How you respond in those moments matters most.

Pressure is a Dial, Not a Switch

The Yerkes-Dodson Law shows that performance follows an inverted U-curve. Too little pressure leads to disengagement. Optimal pressure leads to peak focus. Too much pressure leads to anxiety, paralysis, and choking. Signs of over-pressure include perfectionism, pre-game illness complaints, and emotional withdrawal from sport.

Their Identity Is Bigger Than Their Sport

Over-identifying with sport, known as athletic identity foreclosure, is a serious risk. When sport is their only identity, injury or deselection becomes a psychological crisis. Parents who tie their own identity to their child’s success amplify this risk. Actively nurture your child’s interests, relationships, and strengths outside of sport. Celebrate who they are, not just what they achieve.

Small Shifts in Language, Big Shifts in Impact

Instead of This	Try This
“You need to score more”	“You need to score more”
Silence or tension after a loss	“I love watching you compete”
Comparing to teammates	“How did you feel about your effort?”
Coaching from the stands	Cheering for the whole team
Talking about the game immediately	Giving 20 to 30 minutes of decompression time

Research by Joan Duda shows that the home environment creates a motivational climate just as powerful as the coach’s. Families who create a mastery climate at home—where effort, learning, and improvement are valued above winning—raise athletes with higher intrinsic motivation, lower anxiety, and longer sports careers.

Questions Parents Ask

Is my child too young for the programs?

Our programs are designed for competitive athletes at all levels. Children under 13 can use the platform with parental permission and supervision. The mental performance program, in particular, teaches foundational skills like goal setting, breathing, and self-talk that benefit athletes of any age.

My child just had ACL surgery, where do I start?

Start with a free consultation. Coach Dave will assess where your athlete is in their recovery timeline and recommend the right entry point. The ACL Recovery Plus program is a complete multi-phase system that addresses both the physical and mental sides of recovery.

What is mental performance training? Is it therapy?

No. Mental performance training is not therapy, counseling, or clinical psychology. It is performance coaching that teaches athletes trainable mental skills like confidence, focus, visualization, and emotional regulation. Think of it as strength training for the mind.

Can I sit in on my child's coaching sessions?

For athlete sessions, Coach Dave typically works with the athlete directly. However, parent-specific sessions are available where Dave will work with you on how to support your athlete’s development. These are separate from athlete sessions to maintain a safe coaching space.

How much does it cost?

Program pricing is listed on each program page. 1-on-1 coaching sessions are available as 30-minute sessions ($75) or 1-hour sessions ($150). The full Mental Performance Training Program is $1,250. A free informational session is available for any parent who wants to discuss their athlete’s situation before committing.

How do I know if my child needs this?

If your athlete is recovering from an injury, struggling with confidence, experiencing pre-game anxiety, losing motivation, or simply wants to take their performance to the next level, these programs can help. If you are unsure, the free consultation is the best place to start.

Understanding Your Athlete's Developmental Stage

The Development Model of Sport Participation (DMSP), developed by sport psychologist Jean Côté, is one of the most widely accepted frameworks for understanding how young athletes grow. Knowing where your child is on this pathway helps you support them in the right way at the right time.

Stage	Age Range	What It Means	Your Role as a Parent
Sampling Years	Ages 6-12	Broad exploration across multiple sports. Focus on fun, friendship, and movement.	Expose them to many activities. Prioritize enjoyment over results. Resist pressure to specialize early.
Specializing Years	Ages 13-15	Narrowing to 1-2 sports. Increased skill development and emerging athletic identity. Watch for burnout.	Support their choice. Encourage a second sport. Watch for burnout.
Investment Years	Ages 16+	Full commitment to one sport. High-level training and long-term goal pursuit.	Transition from director to supporter. Protect autonomy. Play supportive role. Stay positive.

What Your Athlete Needs — Maslow's Hierarchy Applied to Sport

An athlete cannot focus on improving their game if they are hungry, exhausted, or emotionally unsafe. Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, applied to sport, gives you a simple framework for understanding what your child needs at every level.

The Most Powerful Thing You Can Say:

“I love watching you play.”

Research consistently finds that the single most powerful thing a parent can say after any competition is this statement. It communicates unconditional support, keeps sport enjoyable, and builds the psychological safety athletes need to take risks, grow, and ultimately thrive.

The NEXT GENERATION of Mental Performance Training

Specialized sports performance and mental performance coaching — built by a former NBA trainer with 36 years of experience.